No contact has been very difficult for me through this. I would look forward to talking with him or texting him constantly. Well, he makes it really easy to go with no contact, since he took a week's vacation when she came in for a week and a half and he spent a total of 3 hours with the kids. On July 4th he saw them at his sister's for less than 2 hours of the 3. Mind you, I was there and he did not even have to take them. Then mom passed (as many are aware) and he never offered to help out with the kids or take them. I have to stop myself from calling or texting, but I think in the long run I will be much better off. How can someone put someone new before his family and old life? Really stinks.
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