My stbx came over a few nights ago and we had a really long talk about why this has all happened. Paperwork is filed but isn't final. We have 2 little boys and he and I both think that we can try again if we can identify the problems and work in the right direction to fix everything. Part of me wants to and did in the first place. Part of me says, "What if it happens again?" I don't know if I could go through all of this hurt again...I'm strong, but not THAT strong. We both said and did a lot of really mean and irrational things in the last few months, and I don't know what to think or what to believe. I just want my husband back, but I don't know if it's a good idea. Any suggestions?
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