
Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
Not because it's easy, not because you feel pressured to.
You do it because it just happens, it just flows. You want to open up to someone and you just do.
Keep in mind. If you find someone who makes you happy, and it is a healthy relationship, it doesnt really matter if it works out or not. It is still healthy and healing. Or at least that is what my therapist told me LoL.
Therapy my friend and prayer. I hope it works.
Not everyone who owns a deck of cards has a gambling addiction.
Not everyone who has sex is a sexual addict.
It would be hard (hopefully) to find someone in this day and age who isn't computer savvy. But if you're honest with them and they're honest and open with you upfront about expectations, the trust will just happen naturally.
I say, give everyone a chance. It might be "safer" to be a misenthrope, but it doesn't pay off in the long run.
Part of it is looking for red flags and being honest with yourself when you see them instead of ignoring them or hoping they'll go away. I know that would have saved me a lot of heartache in the past.
Part of it is where you meet people. I wish I could say churches are a great place, but even places of worship are being inundated with people who aren't honest with themselves about what they stand for and what drive them at their core.
Relationships are always going to be a gamble, no matter how you look at it.
The question is, what do you bring to the relationship, what do you have to offer? And what does the other person bring to the relationship? Hopefully, those goals and expectations match up. And time is a great indicator of those things.