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I wasn't sure where to post this, but it is a pretty big problem that I am very concerned about. I have had a lot of trouble with my marriage in the past, a lot of trouble, and we are working through it.
Recently, we have been spending a lot of time with her family, it used to always be mine. I am fine with it, they are a group of great people. The problem is with her stepsister.
She is younger, 28 I believe, and very friendly. I have been getting the feeling that she is coming on to me.
I don't know what to do about it. She is very attractive, but I feel nothing towards her, plus I would never think of cheating on my wife with her. She is a great person though, its not like she is vicious towards my wife at all, I think it is just an attraction that she feels towards me.
Last night, she stopped by our house with her sister. My father-in-law suggested that we go down to the store to get some drinks, since we were running low. He suggested that I go with the stepsister. We went to one place that was right down the street, it was closed, so we went back to the house, and they sent us out again to a place that they knew would be open, it was 10 minutes away.
So we got down there and she kept making flattering comments, she was really obviously flirting. She was slightly drunk, and wasn't hiding any of her feelings. It made me really nervous, so I kept trying to talk about things like her new job and the family. It did work, but it was very awkward.
I have to see her a lot, so I am just wondering what to do about it. Does anyone have any advice?
Recently, we have been spending a lot of time with her family, it used to always be mine. I am fine with it, they are a group of great people. The problem is with her stepsister.
She is younger, 28 I believe, and very friendly. I have been getting the feeling that she is coming on to me.
I don't know what to do about it. She is very attractive, but I feel nothing towards her, plus I would never think of cheating on my wife with her. She is a great person though, its not like she is vicious towards my wife at all, I think it is just an attraction that she feels towards me.
Last night, she stopped by our house with her sister. My father-in-law suggested that we go down to the store to get some drinks, since we were running low. He suggested that I go with the stepsister. We went to one place that was right down the street, it was closed, so we went back to the house, and they sent us out again to a place that they knew would be open, it was 10 minutes away.
So we got down there and she kept making flattering comments, she was really obviously flirting. She was slightly drunk, and wasn't hiding any of her feelings. It made me really nervous, so I kept trying to talk about things like her new job and the family. It did work, but it was very awkward.
I have to see her a lot, so I am just wondering what to do about it. Does anyone have any advice?
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
as for telling the wife.. tell her the woman was drunk and acting kinda weird... don't know what is going on with her...and leave it.
last thing you need is YOU saying a family member of hers is coming on to you.
1. I am not that gullible and
2. I have known these people for almost 21 years and have been married for 18 years, so it would be just stupid for them all to get together and do anything like that.