I wasn't sure where to post this, but it is a pretty big problem that I am very concerned about. I have had a lot of trouble with my marriage in the past, a lot of trouble, and we are working through it.
Recently, we have been spending a lot of time with her family, it used to always be mine. I am fine with it, they are a group of great people. The problem is with her stepsister.
She is younger, 28 I believe, and very friendly. I have been getting the feeling that she is coming on to me.
I don't know what to do about it. She is very attractive, but I feel nothing towards her, plus I would never think of cheating on my wife with her. She is a great person though, its not like she is vicious towards my wife at all, I think it is just an attraction that she feels towards me.
Last night, she stopped by our house with her sister. My father-in-law suggested that we go down to the store to get some drinks, since we were running low. He suggested that I go with the stepsister. We went to one place that was right down the street, it was closed, so we went back to the house, and they sent us out again to a place that they knew would be open, it was 10 minutes away.
So we got down there and she kept making flattering comments, she was really obviously flirting. She was slightly drunk, and wasn't hiding any of her feelings. It made me really nervous, so I kept trying to talk about things like her new job and the family. It did work, but it was very awkward.
I have to see her a lot, so I am just wondering what to do about it. Does anyone have any advice?