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We all have triggers that once hit, the crying starts. I had a strange one.
On Sunday H finally gave the date he would move out - end of Nov. The crying and sleepless nights returned.
Yesterday I felt like crying at work, at the gym, and especially when reading DS post, I was able to hold myself. I thought the floodgates would open as soon as I got home. After I opened the door to the empty house, I didn't really have any tears to shed.
Back in Aug, from the receipts I found H bought total of three 18-bottle cases of beer in different occasions. He had one case in the kitchen and hid two in an empty luggage. When one of the hidden cases disappeared, I was sad thinking that he took it to the OW's place or wherever he spent excessive time. He consumed the last bottle in the kitchen before we went on a cruise trip 2 weeks ago. I could see he tried to consume it all before he moves. I thought there was another case to consume and it would take a while to consume it, because he really doesn't spend much time at home. That made me think he would stay for at least another month. It was gone when I checked last night and so the gates open.
My other trigger is whenever I think about how hard I cried, I want to cry. It feels like I experience the same sadness over again. Last but not least reading other people's posts especially with any similarities of my situations put tears in my eyes too.
On Sunday H finally gave the date he would move out - end of Nov. The crying and sleepless nights returned.
Yesterday I felt like crying at work, at the gym, and especially when reading DS post, I was able to hold myself. I thought the floodgates would open as soon as I got home. After I opened the door to the empty house, I didn't really have any tears to shed.
Back in Aug, from the receipts I found H bought total of three 18-bottle cases of beer in different occasions. He had one case in the kitchen and hid two in an empty luggage. When one of the hidden cases disappeared, I was sad thinking that he took it to the OW's place or wherever he spent excessive time. He consumed the last bottle in the kitchen before we went on a cruise trip 2 weeks ago. I could see he tried to consume it all before he moves. I thought there was another case to consume and it would take a while to consume it, because he really doesn't spend much time at home. That made me think he would stay for at least another month. It was gone when I checked last night and so the gates open.
My other trigger is whenever I think about how hard I cried, I want to cry. It feels like I experience the same sadness over again. Last but not least reading other people's posts especially with any similarities of my situations put tears in my eyes too.
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
we will get through this. Believe have faith and just know.