I say camping!!! Kids LOVE to camp. (Personally, if you have to go outside the hotel to get to the lounge, that's "roughing it".) Anyway, just a thought. but a few days in the woods just makes ya feel good.

you can get some really good deals on all inclusives in the off seasons. We were in Purrta Vallerta in July- at the hotel Decameron yes it was very hot but with 5 pools and food everywhere- free drinks- it was worth the 1100 for the two of us- including flight!

Camping - thanks - not my idea of fun - tried it - did not enjoy it, but at least I gave it a shot. I do need my own personal indoor plumbing.

I looked at your profile to se where you are to make suggestions but you don't list a state.

I have taken several small road trips with my boys since HE left. I admit to feeling a bit intimidated at first but you get over that. Sometimes taking a few small trips is more fun than one really long one.

Once you find your location - look for hotels that offer weekly rates instead of nightly ones. (surburban lodge is one of them - $215 for the week and it comes equipped with a kitchenette)

I have 3 boys = 7, 10, & 14 and have always wanted to go skiing - but was waiting for the youngest to get old enough to enjoy it. If I wait any longer - the oldest will be off at college. I spoke to a friend who skis frequently to find the best bang for the buck. Turns out her family is going the same week I planned to. She invited us along to join them. We will caravan 18 hours and stay across the hall from them. I have to admit I feel much safer taking such a long trip knowing there will be someone looking out for us in case we get into trouble.

Good luck in your planning. It is never too soon to make memories with your family - even if it is minus one.