Why do people have to live life hurting one another ?... Why is the heart so strong that once we mistrust one person we cant trust again not to be hurt ? ... I have been seperated just over 5 months and a few weeks ago I started seeing a man who was also seperated , he was having an affair and his wife threw him out , then he stopped seeing the lady he was having an affair with ... I have been trying so hard not to think about the reason he was seperated but it nawed at me and tonight we ended up saying good bye to one another ... I wasnt in love with him by no means , it was just an attraction we had for one another but the fear was in me he would go back to his wife ... so yeah honestly I am a bit hurt over it because I cant find any trust within me ... So I sit wondering and asking myself if I will ever be able to trust another man ... I dont want to go threw the rest of my life alone but also dont think I could ever let myself get hurt the way I was hurt by my husband ... So I am asking anyone that knows ... Does the trust come back ?
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