3 months ago my ex left me for a 19 year old girl 17 years younger than me, that doesn't bother me, the disrespect and the insult he made to are 7 years together does. He hasn't got very far 100 yards from the house, he as her there. From the moment we split up he kept coming back and telling how much he loved me but did not want to be in a relationship with me, he felt lonely and needy. I put a stop to this however the pain is too much, and why should I help him get over me and appease his guilt. I feel however that he as split with me and than just held me in the moment, by continuing to stay close by and leave stuff in the house, I can not get to a point where I feel it is over...I'm so feed up of crying, I'm so fed up of feeling like I'm still having a relationship with him even though we don't talk anymore...all his actions feel like a punishment, I got angry with him and he does something like have the cable cut off. Anyone got any advice...councilling is not helping niether is time????
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