Well, I took my 2 kids to see the stbx's mother, their Grandmother, yesterday. HE was home for 2 weeks and didn't bring them there once. He hardly went there himself. I had been requested to do this by his nephew, so I obliged. The stbx called this morning and said "that was nice of you" I said "yes it was" and then he said "why are you talking to me like that?" Why should I even talk to him, let alone be cordial? I hate talking to him. He wants everything to stay the same with us, like being friends, we just won't have a marriage. I can't be his friend, especially right now. I think he wants us to be friends because he is not used to not having me there to call for the petty little things he used to call for. He doesn't call anyone anymore, and has noone to tell the little, insignificant things to anymore. I sure as hell don't want to hear them. I will be here if he wants the kids or to discuss finances, but other than that, I don't need to tlak to him.
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