Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
Divorce has been final for a few months but the relationship has been dead for over a year.
I am now seeing woman I have been in interested in for over 17 years. We have a great time together and probably started talking about the future too soon but I really like her company. She lives 7 hours away and so I only see her once a month. She has never been married and neither one of us has kids.
Recently she said she was feeling overwhelmed and that we should take things day by day. I took this very personally even though she said her feelings haven't changed.
I am taking this opportunity to work on me.
I am now seeing woman I have been in interested in for over 17 years. We have a great time together and probably started talking about the future too soon but I really like her company. She lives 7 hours away and so I only see her once a month. She has never been married and neither one of us has kids.
Recently she said she was feeling overwhelmed and that we should take things day by day. I took this very personally even though she said her feelings haven't changed.
I am taking this opportunity to work on me.
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It is great you are taking the opportunity to work on yourself. That will only help your new relationship be stronger. Just enjoy yourself and her...time is on your side.
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Taking is slow is not a bad thing. Lot easier to make less mistakes when things slow down, don't be discouraged.
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Take it slow....no need to rush things and end up in the same boat again.
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Any suggestions on what to read to help out with living alone? More info: I made a career move that has put me into isolation...i.e. a tiny town (300 people). No friends, no family. How to cope with being alone when I love to be around people?
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that is awesome, with the time away from each other you can discover who you are and how you would like your life to be, how you want a relationship to be. go slow. enjoy getting to know who you are and really like yourself. good luck. happy for you.
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