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ok so stbx told me about 3 days ago he'd be taking the boys to his moms house which is only down the other end of town , for a sleepover. this makes me feel really unconfortable since his big hairbrained idea he told family relations , is to live with his mom in her "4 " bedroom house. i fear he'll say something to them about that whole idea without me present but with his family there instead. what do i do? im afraid to appoach him with this concern. Should i have told my attorney how i feel and what is going on? THe other thing is that he is supposed to drop a bday present with the boys over to my baby cousin, but on sunday according to him. now my cousin called today for me, and said he wants to go over to her house tomorrow. what is up with this situation? Why is he lying? I was gonna meet him somewhere to get the kids sunday after he drops the gift. so that way i can and the boys, can have dinner with my mom. i dont get this man.

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He must do what he wants and not what you want. Is he lying or just doing things his way? Do you think that the word 'lying' is a pejorative word when perhaps you could have used 'confused' or 'stupid'? He still wished to fulfill his obligation re the present but on his schedule. Why is that not acceptable?

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i think that any concerns you have, you should discuss with your attorney. and you are not in control of what he tells his family. he can say whatever he wants, does not mean it's going to happen, let him make an ass out of himself if he wants to. your cousin should have told him no. and you should call him and tell him your cousin called and told you, and that you guys all ready decided about sunday and it should stay that way.
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