Please I need help...tonight my husband told me that he is never coming back home. He left us on Thanksgiving without warning. I begged him and asked that we go for counseling this whole time but he has seen what is on the "other side" of the fence. My children and I caught him a week before Christmas with woman in his bedroom closet hiding so we know that she is a reason why he won't come back. I was a good wife...cooked, cleaned, active in the community, has alot of friends, etc. He always gave me little hope because he would say things like "WE need to stain the mailbox this summer", etc. things like that. I am totally heart broken and very scared. We were together 23 years and married 18 years. We have 2 boys 14 & 17 years old. We are all very sad and the kids are mad also. I need to know that I will come out ok when things are done. I don't like feeling this scared. Tonight was definitely a milestone because I actually thought that this would never happen. I took vows to be together forever. My husband was very mentally and verbally abusive and drank but I took those vows for better or worse. I don't drink and don't go out very much so I don't know why he would want to leave our good family. It makes me feel like I was a bad person. I just need to know that I will be ok someday. I am sad, sad, sad. Thanks for your support in advance. You will never know how much I thank you for it. :) Carol
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