Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
Tonight I went to mediation with my stbx. I thought I was going to die. It is the first time he and I have spent any time in the same room since he left me for someone new. I thought mediation was somewhere you could go to talk safely about decision with you stbx but the things he was saying was so hurtful. He repeatedly said that he never wanted to marry me how he always wished I was someone else and he had never loved me. That when he looked in my eyes he wanted to puke. I thought oh my good and all I did was sat there in total humilation until she finally put an end to it. What the hell? How do you deal with someone you have spent 12 yrs married to and was with a total of 15. This is the only man I have ever loved or been with and he is looking m ein the eyes like trash and like I never existed. Is it ever going o get better?
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
"Keep Your Chin Up!~!
My Ex and the Mediator met prior and bonded... it was my idea to mediate initially.. and then he started to get greedy.. and kept insisting on this one particular mediator... so... my gut feeling was not good... so I suggested we get another person.. he freaked on me....
next thing I know the mediator is calling me and leaving me messages...rude.. and so I called her up.. and told her I did not feel strong enough to be in mediation, I felt I would be bullied, the husband's personality too strong for me to handle.
The mediator freaked on me then.. and got pushy...insisted we meet just the same.. then I told her...that I had contacted a lawyer.. gave a name. (this was a bluff).. mediator went ape on me then.. and that was it. No mediation.
I was not going to sit down and be bullied.
Saw a lawyer, he called the mediator, and told her that I would not be needing her services, but thank you. He also left her a personal message, cos she had said some disparaging things about him to me.
Do not be bullied at Mediation Sessions.
Tell the Mediator that you are upset to be under attack like that.
If the STBEx wants to vent.. go see a counsellor and unload his feelings there.
Don't ever allow that to happen again. As was said, You bring an end to it. You are not there to be abused.