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So it is my husbands birthday and what would have been our 5 year clean date annivarsary since we had the same clean date. Now I have 64 days and he has 5 years.
I saw him yesterday when he dropped the baby off I gave him a card and a little magnetic picture frame that says I (and then a heart) daddy. He gave me a hug and then told me I smelled good and asked where I had been????
He also slapped my ass when we were holding each other which was weird?????
Anyway,today is his birthday I called early morning and sang him happy birthday and then made the stupidest mistake 3 hours later calling him again and he did not answer I left him a message asking him to go to let me and his daughter take him to dinner tonight....of course that was a big no he never called back. Now I feel so hurt and ignored and my head is spinning thinking of whom he might be with celebrating and what he is doing.
It has only been 2 months separated and I feel like I just want to disappear.
I saw him yesterday when he dropped the baby off I gave him a card and a little magnetic picture frame that says I (and then a heart) daddy. He gave me a hug and then told me I smelled good and asked where I had been????
He also slapped my ass when we were holding each other which was weird?????
Anyway,today is his birthday I called early morning and sang him happy birthday and then made the stupidest mistake 3 hours later calling him again and he did not answer I left him a message asking him to go to let me and his daughter take him to dinner tonight....of course that was a big no he never called back. Now I feel so hurt and ignored and my head is spinning thinking of whom he might be with celebrating and what he is doing.
It has only been 2 months separated and I feel like I just want to disappear.
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I gave my 2 week notice last Friday 13th. Now to join you fine people in a life of leisure and nothing else to do but to look out for myself....is it just me or does that sound pretty boring? My goal was to live to retire and I guess having to take early retirement because of health reasons wasn't exactly the way I had planned things. I just can't stay in that building that is reeking mildew...
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
They hurt. A lot.
Try not to let it derail you from your 64 days. You need to concentrate on yourself right now, and your little girl.
Is it possible he's with someone else? Or just friends?
I don't know. I was so stupid to ask. He is just so hot and cold with me I don't know how to read him. He held me for a long time yesterday when he dropped our daughter off. Normally he gives me a hug but not like last night. But then, he goes and ignores my call. I have to learn to ignore him for now. Tomorrow starts a new day and I wil try my hardest not to call him all of this week starting with tomorrow.
Just keep focusing on staying clean for now. Maybe leave him alone for a little bit.
Just keep focusing on staying clean for now. Maybe leave him alone for a little bit.
I mean there we were in the middle of the street with so many neighbors hanging out and our daughter standing there he hugged me and held me for a while and then....bamm haha.
Yeah that was weird.
Like I said before, stick to working on you. Work your program, take care of your little girl, take care of yourself.
And I hate when I double post! Big hug, mom2dot!
Stay strong.