I just need some encouragement from some people who have been through this. Everyone keeps telling me it will get better with time, and while I know that in my head, my heart is not there yet. My husband moved out 5 weeks ago and less than 24 hours after telling me he wanted a divorce, he was in an apartment with someone who was supposed to be a good friend of mine. I am still in shock. He never said he was unhappy or missing anything; this really came out of the blue. I thought we were really happy. We were planning a big family cruise for June to celebrate his 40th birthday and our 10th wedding anniversary. I just got done looking at our wedding album, which was probably not a good idea, but oh well.... I had the papers served to him today -- that was my anniversary present to him. Today has just been really rough and if anyone can just give me some support and encouragement right now, I would really appreciate it...
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