well my stbx seemingly has been hauling out the olive branch to try to stop the fighting which has been mostly onesided as she has attacked me. She is just making ends meet and wants half of the money so she can buy a house for her and the bf. I have filed for temp custody orders and she is sauying its not fair, that i want to go this way. She has fired her lawyer as he said i am trying to get it through your thick head. She would not elaborate more.She wants try mediation i really do not. She says she will take kids 1 week i can have them the next. Will not work as she has 4 kids and we have 2 right now all 4 live here (2 stepsons) live with me. She just says she will take them if i do not want them. Never offers help financial or otherwise. She says will fight more for custody as far as physical goes but will never give it to me.If i go to court and she says i wanted mediation and i did nt try will that hurt me. I have logs as to the amount of time i have had kids and how much she did. Now she is trying to make it look like she will be the good mom. Will that change much or is it a last ditch effort. Court date is for August 21?
thanks in advance
thanks in advance
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