So I've finished moving out of "our" house. My ex already had his stuff out over a week ago. He expects me to help him clean the house so he can get his deposit back. I won't get any of that deposit. He even went so far as to tell me to call his friend's wife to have her help me clean so it would be less work for "us". Yet, he hasn't once come back to that house to pitch in even once yet. Plus, when we first moved in, I was the one who cleaned the whole house by myself. He's the one who cheated, betrayed me and the kids, and ended it. I don't want to be selfish, but he's already pretty much settled in his new place, when I still have boxes sitting in my house and filling my garage. Whenever he gets upset or doesn't hear what he wants from me, he also tries to hold visitation with my step-kids (to whom I've been their only real mother) over my head by saying he doesn't know if I should be around them. He's going out of town soon for 2 weeks and I really want to be able to have them stay with me and my 2 kids who have been their brothers for the past 5 almost 6 years. I am always trying to be the nice/good person when it comes to doing things for people and putting them before myself, even if they don't deserve it. Should I do that now? Or is it time to draw the line and make him clean it himself since he's getting the deposit back? Aaagh! I hate being so nice! But it is sooooo hard to be mean! Should I help, or say screw it and take the risk of not getting to see my step-kids?
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