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I have a question for anyone who will try to give me an answer, or even advice.
As many of you know, my H & I have reconcilled. He has been back home(physically) for about a 1 1/2 weeks. Things were really good for a few days. He was being really supportive with my health issues at hand & trying to work on "us." We went out yesterday & fished at a pond for several hours & had a great time. When we got home, he just seemed to shut me out. He told me last night that he thinks that I have O.C.D., as I'm on the computer all hours of the day & night. I am on WAY more than I should be, but I also do other things in the house, cleaning etc. How can a person act to be SO supportive for several days & then BAM!!! Back to saying all the "negative" things to me that he could. With my depression, this does NOT help me at all, matter of a fact, it makes it WORSE!~! WHY does he keep doing this to me? I don't understand it.... Someone, please try to help me figure this out!~!
As many of you know, my H & I have reconcilled. He has been back home(physically) for about a 1 1/2 weeks. Things were really good for a few days. He was being really supportive with my health issues at hand & trying to work on "us." We went out yesterday & fished at a pond for several hours & had a great time. When we got home, he just seemed to shut me out. He told me last night that he thinks that I have O.C.D., as I'm on the computer all hours of the day & night. I am on WAY more than I should be, but I also do other things in the house, cleaning etc. How can a person act to be SO supportive for several days & then BAM!!! Back to saying all the "negative" things to me that he could. With my depression, this does NOT help me at all, matter of a fact, it makes it WORSE!~! WHY does he keep doing this to me? I don't understand it.... Someone, please try to help me figure this out!~!
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one step further.... any chance this is his shitty way of telling you he feels neglected by you spending so much time online?
sorry cat, trying to play devil's advocate for a change
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cat...i like the idea of the letter. it gives you the chance to articulate your words and gives him the chance to read at his own pace without facing you. which may sound silly, talking face to face is always better, but...it's worth a try. maybe some books on depression etc would help him too.
that's all i got. i'm pretty (excuse my language) fucked up today myself, so i don't have much!
Accept what help he has to offer you now. Ignore the rest. AFTER your health is stabilized and you recover a job, THEN engage him on the quality of your marriage, is my advice.