Hey everybody has a right to their opinions. You were trying to help, don't be down on yourself for that.

You were and are looking out for her. Don't listen to people who don't have teenaged kids tell you that you are wrong. THey just don't know what they are talking about and unfortunately won't know unless and until they have teenaged daughters, sweetie.

You're doing the right thing watching out for kids. All adults should be protecting the children in this society. Maybe, if adults were paying more attention, kids wouldn't have so much emotional pain in their young lives.

Don't apologize for doing what's right.

You were watcthing on for someone. And there is nothing wrong with that

My husband could never understand why so many of my childrens friends always come to see me. They needed someone to just listen to them and let them know they were loved. They still contact me now that they are older and a new group I have become Mama Lyn to. There are so many kids that are hurting and just need hugs and help along the way. I had a few adults growing up that were there for me, I have passed that on to those around me. You have a good heart.

Why do we have three (now) treads on this subject? WAS THE FIRST TWO NOT ENOUGH...

Deb
look dont go. Were are here to help people I thought I was doing her a fav by being her friend. I didnt mean to upset you in any way. you dont have to go anywhere please stay. Look I'm sorry I was voicing my outlook and you were doing the same. It got out of hand. you WERE doing the right thing. I just thought that Dark needed a friend and I was going to be there for her.

look dont go. Ok please you seem like a very nice person and I want to be there for you as well. Anyone who needs help or advice I want to do my best to help out. Its not easy for anyone to go through what you went through...yea I read your profile.. but being strong and helping otheres is what I'm all about. so please stay.

damn it! now I feel like total crap! Deb I never ment to hurt you if I did I'm soo sorry.

Please don't go...you were the one that helped me with that scammer thing last night...whatever you did, you did out of concern for that kid.

Who cares what anyone thinks. You did what you thought was right. If they don't like it, they can lump it. Ignore it and continue caring. That's what I think you should do.

I happen to think that it's admirable that you cared. Who can fault you for caring?