Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
my ex husband has told me in no uncertain terms that my new partner meeting the children is "never going to happen". he has tried to spread rumours about him to others to discredit him, suggesting he uses drugs!! - my partner is a high school teacher, part time soccer player and coaches kids soccer so imagine the damage this could do! i have sought legal advice and my partner is willing to take a drugs test to prove his innocence. my ex husband meanwhile, has a new girlfiend who practically lives with him. she spends weekend with my kids when they are at his house, and although they are only 3 and 5, have seen the two of them in bed in the morning. i have been with my partner 6 months and haven't introduced him. i would like to gradually spend some time with him and the kids but am scared of how my ex will react. my partner is really worried too and we dont want to harm the kids. any suggestions?
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I have been here before, a long long time ago and now I am back.Forgive me for not just saying what I want to say,even under a triple dose of antidepressants it is still raw and seeping and I am hesitant at revealing it as at least under the bandages around my heart I don,t have to look at how raw and wounded.My child was cleaved from my heart by his own actions. my child of ten,turning eleven...
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
No one that really matters will believe what your ex might say about the new person in your life. He will figure that out. If anyone questions you..a jealous ex is explanation enough.
He is your EX..your only obligation to him is to take care of the kids when you have them.
If you give him an inch of control over your life..he will take a mile.
Allowing him to have any control over your life will result in this type of behavior continuing. Don't allow him to live rent free in your head.
As for your ex, as everyone has said people will see him for what he is. Consult your atty. as you have. I don't believe you will have anything to worry about. Your ex on the other hand may.