My STBX is crazy. We have been seperated for two months now. I have no money for a lawyer now and I am moving home 2500 miles away. I recently this week found out he has been having affairs for the past three years. When I found this out and confronted him he keeps saying you are crossing boundries. How does that make sense?? He also is making threats like saying you need to stop bringing up the past or I am not going to help you money wise.What? Its our present not our past! He also says I am creating drama all because I told him I saw and knew about what he has been doing since 2006. And I got this email saying that if I don't change my behavior he is not going to help me or talk to me. WHAT?? Change MY behavior?? So he is making threats basically because he got caught cheating and having this whole other life for the last three years. This is just crazy. I guess I am going to have to find money for a lawyer...the only bad thing is I am moving to another state. Oh and he told me he won't talk to me until I respect him and his boundries. We never set up boundries...and I didn't think being called out on cheating was crossing a boundry.So wonderful he is telling me he isn't going to work with me. He has been so emotionally and mentally abusive. I just hate him. Sorry I just needed to vent...I just feel so backed into a corner.
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