Hi. Today my husband told me he wants to divorce. He left in Dec 06 and we started to go to go to counseling. He came back to the house for 2 months. I feel like such a failure. This will be my 2nd divorce. Our problems have been sexual- we survived Hurricane Charley and after that our sex drives and life dwindled to non exisistant. Outside of that we are the best of friends, and my heart is at breaking point right now. I wish he would tell me he hates me, but he told me he 'loves me to death' which makes my pain worse. How do you get over the pain of this, especially when you both still love each other?
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