
Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
These things happened back then .. only people lived in tolerance and not necessarily happily....
I hate to bring up cliche's. But how many movies have you seen where the father is estranged from his daughter because of the mother. Quite a few.
In the end, all you can do is create a new life for yourself so that when your daughter is older, she will appreciate that you are there for her. Like me, you're going to have to forget about the first few years. The system is against us for that.
It does come back in waves. So you may start feeling a bit better and then the anger comes back. It will take a long time. And please don't make the mistake of taking a drink to make it better. It only makes you cry.
Europeans laugh at us for having such a problem with our "puritanical" stance on monogamy.
In the South American culture, the men have their "freedoms".
There are reasons for divorce, here, that make sense to Us.
I do understand your bitterness, I was very politically active, and backed away from many things that I was involved in...I was sick of what I saw as Failure to protect basic Family Rights...my children were "lost" and I no longer cared, either.
Disenchantment can change an entire life course.
High as the divorce rate is it does not devalue the citizens of the country and that is who you are serving.
Everyone should thank you b/c if everyone said why bother then nothing would get accomplished. You may not see it but in the long run you are doing more than most of us ever will. You are making a difference and proving that democracy and free will still carry some weight in this world.
If you are still discouraged know that you are serving your country for hope, not just hope that the war will end but hope that some day society will be back on track.
If it was reason you were looking for, I just gave it to you. God bless and thank you for your courage, bravery, sense of right and wrong and for your sense of duty.
Also, LostAndTorn, you are fighting for me. You are fighting for my right to make friends like you. You are fighting for my right to marry the "wrong" man, and my right to find God's man for me. You are fighting for my right to reach out in my darkest hour and find someone who understands. You are fighting for my right to attain all God has for me in this life. You are fighting for my right to be and do all His best. You fight for my right to be wrong and my right to be right. You fight for my right to give up my rights.
Thank you for doing so much for this stranger. You will not know, this side of eternity, the impact you have made on your world.
you are well aware of why you are serving. you know if you didn't "want" to, that you still would. you know that you and others like you are stronger in certain areas than most of us. you know that your shoulders carry a part of our burden because they can, and that means something to you. it's a duty and a responsibility but you realize the honor in carrying it out. what you may not always realize is the appreciation that we have for that..... and still you serve, because you don't need that, you just know you need to. strength Tj, inner strength, that's why. Thank You.
As for the others... there are some that do not deserve it, but that is a fact of life that you cannot change. It has always been like that.
Win some, lose some. The wins are worth it, though.
Is there any type of Family Leave that you could take for this, without having it reflect on you?
But this is a "if it feels good do it" kind of hippie morality that has invaded and overtaken our good sense. I hope that love and happiness comes to you to restore your faith in humanity. I appreciate what you stand for. I wish there were more like you.
And if that doesn't get you through this, then you are serving for your Ranger buddies. Your Brothers in Arms. And you are serving all of us here too. That is who and why you are serving. You are serving because you DO love your country! Because you DO care about your fellow human being and you are serving to protect this nation from foreign invaders. Because that IS the type of person you are!