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Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

sundance1958
What I mean by that, is I am in a situation where I still live with my husband even though we do not have a relationship anymore. I am on a medical disability so I do not work and I am dependent on him as I do not bring in enough to function properly. My thing is that I am finding it so difficult living here with him and him having a nice life without me and I simply do not, there is a great deal of resentment, I am at the point where I simply want to leave. I can't live with someone who ignores me on a regular basis. But if I just leave I may be burning many bridges and I may not be able to manage. What would be the smart thing to do.
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