I have learned alot in the almost three weeks of my separation and soon to be divorce. I have learned that I am the only one I can count on. That he is a completely different man than the one I married. Ive learned that people care alot more than you realize. Ive learned that I have alot of inner strength that i just had to find. Ive learned that a spouses cheating really doesnt have aything to do with the one who was betrayed and that you have to keep your good self image. They are the one with the problem. We are not lacking anything. I have learned that I can do amazing things with my life now that it is solely my own. And I have learned that you cant take this kind of thing a day at a time. You take it a second at a time, a breath at a time. Ive learned that I WILL get past the hurt and emerge a strong, beautiful, worthwhile woman. And I am FREE!!!
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