Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
It has been 6 weeks since my stbx told me he didn't love me, didn't want to do soccer games etc..and just left...no communication at all since then. I know people who have been in contact with him online dating and my daughter still instant messges his daughter as well as he dropped his daughter off at my church last Sunday (30 minutes away for them) I think for the most part I am doing pretty well, I actually didn't cry at all this past weekend which is a first for me. People I know feel the need to update me on his happiness and whereas I know they mean well, it does not help me to know who he is dating, why or how long he wants to wait before really starting another relationship or what he does at all...he even told one person that he can't believe I have never contacted him. PLEASE!!! I think he made himself clear when he left..what an EGO he has thinking I would call him. I begged him to stay in August when he first tried to leave and I told myself if it happened again I would just let go. I wish he would stay away and his daughter too until I can look at either of them without one tear or remorse...I feel like I take steps forward and then I have more thrown at me to deal with...has anyone else gone through something like this...how can someone be so callous..does he and his daughter really think the world evolves around them?
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
I am sorry you are going through this and yes, I have been in the same spot! We lived in a very small town and everyone knew his and my every move! We were the town gossip for too long to where I had to move to get any peace!
Good luck sweety!
I told them enough, please don't tell me.
One has stopped. She's a true friend.
The other tried to keep it up, I think she was enjoying the drama and my reactions.
So I don't talk to her.
This is my life, not some soap opera.
Sure, I'm morbidly curious. But it's not healthy for me to know about his life now, To hear about the new woman. He's my past. Not my present and certainly not my future.
How can I enjoy the fantasy of him crawling on his knees and crying out to God, when they keep telling me about his new life?