
Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
Q. - Why don't they suffer?
A. - Maybe they no longer have a soul.
Sound reasonable enough?
My daughter and I have found comfort in the church lately. Spooky how many of the sermons included words and thoughts we had just spoken the week before.
There is such a thing as Karma.
How do you know they don't suffer. You can't read their minds. Try not to concentrate on the OW or your ex. Think about yourself. My brother told me that when I start thinking of my ex .... I should stop immediately and say "NEXT" ... ruminating and thinking about the OW and ex will only hurt you more. They are out of your life.... so start building a life for yourself. I know it can be done because I have experienced a lot of bad things in my life and eventually I was able to feel whole again.
Hang in there and please do not give up hope. You will be happy again. I can almost guarantee it.
Alex, I hope you are right, that I will be happy again. I try not to think about it, but at times I imagine them together in the evening while I am here alone. They are living it up while the rest of the family suffers.
Live and let live. I'm ready to move on without her.
As for do they ever suffer, as a reformed cheater my self I can tell you there came a time I was so upset about what I had done, I had to make amends.