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The words I never thought I would hear....

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Tonight stbx and I had parent-teacher conf. for our daughter. Afterwards, we stood outside and talked. He admitted to missing me very much as well as the kids and that he was having a hard time dealing with things. Then he asked if could tell me something....? I said sure.. He told me that part of him wants to make things work with us and the other part of him never thought he would say anything because he would be too proud. I told him I was happy he told me. But great now what do I do? I told him we still needed to go thru with the divorce, I still need to work on me and he MOST certainly needs to work on him. If after everything is done and counseling is done, than we can talk.
You would think I would be happy, but I am REALLY confused. I have spent the past 10 weeks trying to convince my heart why I don't need him. I know he is not to be trusted. Even though the ow was very short lived and they are done, the fact he was able to do something like that is the point. It was nothing physical other than a kiss, but still. And I don't know if I believe that. Anyways, I could go on and on... as if I didn't feel lost before, I feel completely LOST!!!
You would think I would be happy, but I am REALLY confused. I have spent the past 10 weeks trying to convince my heart why I don't need him. I know he is not to be trusted. Even though the ow was very short lived and they are done, the fact he was able to do something like that is the point. It was nothing physical other than a kiss, but still. And I don't know if I believe that. Anyways, I could go on and on... as if I didn't feel lost before, I feel completely LOST!!!
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You answered much of your own question already;
" I know he is not to be trusted. Even though the ow was very short lived and they are done, the fact he was able to do something like that is the point."
so..there... think about it...
Blessing my dear