ok we split in may and my daughter has told me the whole truth today. i feel horrible that she was put in such a position. The f##k tard has been living with ow since june. He has taken my daughter ther several times. They moved to a house a few streets from where i live. I slept with him last weekend. Everyone knew and no one told me. Everything he has told me has been a lie. Right now i am numb. i called off work for tomorrow. i cant function. i feel so stupid but he never did tell me the truth. 13 years . I wonder how long he really had been seeing her before he finally left here. His family has accepted her while still acting like they accept me. I wonder of he really is the father of the ow's 3 year old.My mom knew and didnt tell me. i have called everyone and no one answers their phone. I think he has dsiconnected his. thats ok if i saw him right now i would kill him. my whole body is one tight nerve. i want to just go to sleep and never wake up. i feel like ill never function again. He told my daughter not to tell me. I told her lying gets you nowhere and that she was my life and to please not ask to go and live with them. I do not know what kind of people they are but they are not the right kind for her to be around .
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