Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
My favorite saying is this "We are the sum of our life's experiences" No one is immune from this. Last night I had to look at one of those life's experiences, and start to dealing with it. See I didn't understand that my desires would effect those closest to me. These desires carried over to many areas of my life, and because these desires surrounded a sexual addiction I couldn't see how it was so terrible. Then came the internet. Oh what a wonderful thing, till porn steeped in. It almost killed me, and destroyed the love of my marriage.
The reason for running to porn went far deeper than just the act. I came from a little boy who felt and was abandoned by his parents. I was molested as a young boy about 10, My father was a love addict, and my parents divorce devastated me.
I got help for the porn, i have fallen more than once from grace, but at least I acknowledge it and am dealing with it in a good way. The hard part is that the pain of all these things come back to bight us in the but when we least expect it to.
If I had only one wish it would be this. Please be kind to those around you, don't become complacent in your relationship, and fight like h##l to be a better person, and not harm those we love/or know.
The good side to all this pain, and suffering is that I can try ot help those who have or are going threw the same things, and just maybe save one person from the same fate.
Thank you for lisenting.
The reason for running to porn went far deeper than just the act. I came from a little boy who felt and was abandoned by his parents. I was molested as a young boy about 10, My father was a love addict, and my parents divorce devastated me.
I got help for the porn, i have fallen more than once from grace, but at least I acknowledge it and am dealing with it in a good way. The hard part is that the pain of all these things come back to bight us in the but when we least expect it to.
If I had only one wish it would be this. Please be kind to those around you, don't become complacent in your relationship, and fight like h##l to be a better person, and not harm those we love/or know.
The good side to all this pain, and suffering is that I can try ot help those who have or are going threw the same things, and just maybe save one person from the same fate.
Thank you for lisenting.
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Congratulations on the progress you've made!
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You know, that takes real courage to admit that on here. I think you are on the right track and yes, your past always tries to haunt you, but stay strong and focused and you'll persevere! *hugs*
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You people are great. I have been battling this for years, and each time I gain more strength. I just wish it wouldn't have been one of ht major reasons for my divorce.
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