I know that I am going to get mixed reactions to this question. My STBX left me out of the blue in May after 24 years of marriage. I asked him if we have a chance in the future, and he said it depends on me. He told me and then changed his story that he left to live with a woman he met on the internet. I have asked him not to lie to me and that if I have no chance with him to let me know and to be honest about his true intentions. His comment was that since he left and no longer lives with me that nothing he does is any of my business and that I have no right to ask questions about what he does or who. My question is this: Do I have a right to call him and ask him what he is doing or what his plans are?
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