I am 38 with a 13 year old son. When my wife and I were still dating before my son I was arrested and had to go to rehab to avoid jailtime. The day I checked in was her friend's wedding she said she would go alone but took a male friend from work. While inside getting letters from her saying how glad she was that I was getting well and couldn't wait to get married and start a family, she was boinking the dude. He was younger and when I got out she and I went back to living with each other and then she changed her mind. But before I had a place to go she came home drunk and horny and the two of us had sex. Next it was she was pregnant and it was a toss up. I alway figured that she went to him first and then to me, but she says she chose me. Now 14 years of marriage later from Texas the two of them are talking and my wife is thinking giving him his shot. Waiting a year and then moving with my son to Texas. Any comments or ideas on what I should do? I had a bad accident and haven't worked in four years. I am awaiting disability, and have some other illnesses. I suggested that we work on the marriage and family for a year and if she still wants to go, I will sign the papers(Joint custody), and let them go to Texas. But this kid who is coming to Jersey soon to see her and that is not going to work unless my son and I are there too. HELP
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