when he called, did you talk to him? If so, what does he want?

yes I felt sorry for him until he started calling way to often and when he told me he wanted to come see me and had been by the house I freaked and blocked his number.

I called the OW's ex husband last summer. She was only two weeks into her separation/divorce when she met my husband. I wanted to know what this woman was all about. He confirmed that she is a snake and stops at nothing to get what she wants. This guy was very nice to me and sorry for what I was dealing with. Now, I have never called him back that would be wierd but I got some of my answers and in the beginning we are all looking for answers.

having been in that situation, if I had the other man's wifes phone number, I would have been tempted to call, don't think I ever would have though, but I can tell you (as you probably know), then mental state he's in probably isn't a good one.

Have you tried simply telling him that you don't feel comfortable talking to him and it upsets you and please do not call again?

However you proceed, be careful.

There's something wrong with him. Be careful. If you have to get a restraining order, do it.

This happened to me. He wanted to getr his wife back, then wanted ot help me and give me all the dirt on them, he went back and forth. I finally told him I can't help him, they are together and I can't fix it and we just have to move on. He went from calling every day, to not at all after that. You need to be honest, realize he is probably hurting too, and make it clear that you can be of no help to him. If he doesn't get it, call the police.

I had a call from the other woman's husband too. He also wanted to come to the house and discuss things. What??? He also knew a lot about me which was very creepy. Essentially, he wanted me to feel his pain and felt the need to call on the premise that he was helping me. He helped me alright. He called for three days straight. Once he got what he wanted which was to get my husband on the phone and tell him a few things, he tapered off. Your guy is angry and he wants you to be angry too since you are him in a sense. Like others have suggested, just tell him that you are uncomfortable and please don't call anymore. Hopefully you'll be rid of him soon.

Okay, this may be a bit weird, but when my aunt cheated on my uncle, he and the OM's wife got together to talk about it/compare notes...they've now been married for 25 years and have two children! Ironic, hey?

Ok even though the x tracks everything I say here, I can't resist. kbc yuck! The fact that the x was sleeping(I'm being kind here in the open) with an ugly troll and then so was her husband gives me the creeps. Being with one person who had no taste is enough, but two now thats pushing it.