
Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
He couldn't even bring himself to call me about it..sent an email! I called him and said "no not speak, just listen", I then told him how I knew EXACTLY how he felt and how sorry I was that he was going through this. I also told him that he would have many hurdles to get over in this process and that even when it is over he will have many more!
It's been some months since he's started this journey, but in those months he's been able to open up to me more about things. Little things like when he says "well I'm annoyed"...I say "annoyed or downright pissed?". Or if he says "I'm bothered by"...I say "bothered or hurt?". We now speak the same language...but probably only because we are/have been, going through the same thing.
Oddly enough he is the one person who has never said to me, nor I to him "you'll meet someone someday". We both know, thats NOT the thing to say.
Time honey, this all takes time!
Winds of change? I hope so for you and me and many, many others like us.
I can so relate you your post that states:
"Of course I'll have the interest in human contact and I do have needs. I'd love to just cuddle up with someone and have them have a genuine interest in me. "
I feel the same thing, but I am sooooo new to this and I am not ready yet..I think.
God bless ya and lots of hugs.
I get depressed when I speak to them :-/