Needshelp got me thinking. What is it women guage success and finances by ? Example - If a man makes 150,000$ a year and is way in debt, has the material trappings of success, but fails to put it to good use, would you see him as the better catch than the guy who makes 35,000 a year and knows how to handle money and make it grow. Be honest, we all have done the pass, nopass thing knowing little more than what we see on the surface. I ask this because I wonder how many women have passed by the real gems thinking that overt signs of money indicated (for real) a persons financial, shall we say "well being". I know more than a few guys in my situation who's income, based on just a pay stub, (or how they persent themselves financialy to the world) bears little relation to their financial worth or stability. In fact, staying under the radar in money matters often is the only safe way to survive with kids and irresponsiable ex'es. Money pays the bills sure, but quality of life has little to do with money once you break above the line to meet your needs and at least have a modest standard of living. This is just my opinion. Ladies/Guys Opinions....?
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