I feel like everything I have accomplished over the last 8 months have been in vein. I have been working on this support group for the local communities.(We Care! Divorce Group). Today is first worse day of my life. I found out that my wife filed for divorce and I can't file for custody because it's in the divorce process. I then get a letter fom the state saying I need to pay child support. I have been paying child support for the last several months. I even have a legal agreement between my wife and I. I don't see how the state can do this if we have an agreement. I confronted my wife and we talked a little. She said she would fix it and she wants me to come home. She wants us to work on our marriage. I just don't know what to do. I am so scared at this point. I am not sure what to believe. How could a women who put me thru so much want me back? She apologized but, is this enough? I don't know how to be sure. I am going to ask her to go to marriage conseling with me. I think if she does this then I think she might be serious. I really don't need to be let down again. I don't know about the other man that she was seeing. Is it over? Will she being seeing him when I am at work? I still do love her and she says she loves me but, is love enough? It's said that I can help others but, when it comes to my own life I am clueless.
Posts You May Be Interested In
I miss traveling with my husband. Has anyone found a specific site regarding cruising for widow/widowers or any sightseeing trips. Not interested in being with couples and kids,,,I realize a cruise ship will have a portion size of families and couples, but perhaps they also put together a part of the cruise ship for groups of widows/widowers????
A friend sent this to me..As far as I can see, grief will never truly end.It may become softer overtime, more gentleand some days will feel sharp.But grief will last as long as Love does - ForeverIt's simply the way the absence of your loved onemanifests in your heart. A deep longing accompaniedby the deepest Love some days. The heavy fog mayreturn and the next day, it may recede.Once again, it's...