Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
I hear here and elsewhere that I am going through a grieving process. Just how long (usually) is this prcess. I know all I want to do is call him yet I will just end up in tears. My tears come and go buckets to egg cups but they continue. It has only been a month and a half, but I was just wondering. I am working on me but still the sadness and love for him remain in my heart.
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
I am personally having a hard time and my counsellor says for me it's probably gonna take a year (yay).
It is hard. Stay strong. We all understand the pain and we will b e here for you.
One day a smile will play at the corners of your mouth...maybe thats all that will happen..but one day when you least expect it....voila..a smile. Don't panic..nothing will break! One day you will chuckle...just slightly. Then WHAM..one day you will be hit with a total belly laugh! Trust me..these things do happen and no one gets injured!
Life does get better with time. It doesn't happen overnight..but it does happen.
The time it takes may depend on your support system and what you are doing to recover from this. We are all different. The most important thing is to take care of yourself the best you can, get help, surround yourself with those who love and support you.