My 20 year old daughter came into town to visit. She is staying with me. She told her dad she was coming into town. Today he text her and asked her if she would like to go out for dinner. She agreed, asked when, and what restaurant they could meet at. She asked her brother to come along, he is 17. Then he texts her back and tells her to meet at his place, they would all drive together in one car to his future in-laws in another city about an hour away. My daughter became very upset by this and decided she did not want to go and neither did her brother. She text him to tell him that she did not want to meet his future "new family" and just wanted to have dinner with him. He text back and told her that she needed to decide whether she wanted to be a part of his new family and if not he wouldn't have anything more to do with her. then goes on to add that she needs to decide whether she wants to be a part of his life in the future or mine. She was very upset and then did not want to see him at all after that. Has anyone experienced anything similar? If so, did you do anything? I'll tell you - I was fuming and had to take a klonopin to calm myself down after I heard that.
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