
Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
Be yourself.
Be comfortable in your own skin. Sure, there's some nervousness envolved, but that's normal.
No, you don't look desparate by asking. Sounds like you're just looking for some reassurance, nothing wrong with that.
*sigh*
lol
Most of the time, guys are waiting for a woman to talk to them...in bars at least.
In other social environments, it's not that hard. Small talk goes a long way towards getting to know someone, find out if they're interested in you, and let's not forget it gives you a chance to see if they're missing most of their teeth ;)
Talk about anything. Sports, cars, work, where you are at the moment...anything, doesn't really matter.
What does matter is this:
Confidence always wins.
Be yourself.
But have fun with it :)
I am sooo not ready to go there either. I mean, yes I miss it, but emotionally I'm just not at that point.
So c'mon guys...get your mind outta the gutter. =)
Or perhaps men see a woman going through divorce as an easy target?!?! now this brings up a whole 'nother topic.
But it goes both ways.
I left a place I used to work because one of my bosses knew I had just broked up with a girl I was dating, and he thought that would be an opportune time to hit on me.
No thanks.
There are quality people out there, they're just hard to find sometimes. And that's the way it should be.
Don't expect me to go too fast...
If I'm not worth a little bit of investment, then you aren't for me. One guy I met on line was 'put out' because I wouldn't "put-out" after our second meeting.
And... don't be embarrased if I want to pay for something (a stumbling block for another guy)... Say "Thank you", then next time we can do something in your budget... it's not a competition!!!
If all else fails, pop in Swingers and watch that scene where they're telling him he's got these claws, and he doesn't know hot to kill the bunny rabbit...WITH THESE CLAWS.
heh
Having a good wingman helps, too.