OK -- I need to google mid-life crisis -- I hadn;t called stbx in 2-3 weeks cuz all I get is voicemail and no return call, so it is pointless to ask him anything right now. But my home coputer crashes last night so I get desperate and call him to ask him about where is the stupid disk the computer says it wants and can I fix it myself. Instead of the usual "hi, this is stbx, pls leave a message" I am invited to "enjoy the music while I wait for my party" and am then treated to a snippet form a country western song about making love adn how he feels like a brand-new man. Was I married to a 13-yr-old? I mean, it just seemed juvenile to me, cuz it was possibly directed at me, altho I suppose he could be using that song to express his independence to his mother, brother, son, whoever else calls him on that phone? So they can know that he feels like a brand-new man now that he is with that whore of an ex-friend of mine? It just was SO out-of-character for him -- just like the way he even talks now is so completely different than when I knew him.