I'm afraid I'm in that typical situation that my ex likes my best friend. I love him, I'm carrying his child. I encouraged their friendship while me and him were together because they both meant the world to me and I wanted to spend time with them both. Now they talk all the time and I'm starting to hate her. They flirt outrageously infront of me. I've asked him to respect me and stop doing it but he just doesn't. Everyone has noticed and it's humiliating. I can't talk to her because she's consumed with depression to the point where I don't want to push her over the edge. She gets very hurt if I ever get angry with her and I don't think she could take it. But I'm hurting so bad, I feel like I'm losing them both. She flirts back with him, last night we were all out and I had to put up with them all over eachother. He denies it, he says I can't stop them being friends, that he fancies her but 'won't do anything until I'm ok with it', but because of this I can't stand them even being friends. I don't want them anywhere near eachother. He gives her lifts everywhere and calls her more than me. I can't cope with this anymore. Please help me, I need outsider's opinions because my ex is incredibly manipulative and I get sucked into his warped way of thinking so easily.
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