
Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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I guess the way it all came about. . still shocks me. It was abrubt and unexpected not a gradual process. I was starting a business so had left my job a month before. I think he expected it to make a ton of money the first month. He left the house one day cursing at me and turned the power off when he left saying that I didn't deserve it. (he always was a little controling). So went to a friends for two days. He called and asked me to come back and I did. .he called the police and said I beat him up. and got an oder of protection so I left got an attorney who told me to go back. I went back to the house and told him the attorney said I don't have to leave. The next day he got an order of protection for my daughter so that I couldn't see her. So 10,000 later . . orders are dropped with joint custody. I just don't understand how people can just lie and have courts believe them.

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So I left my house with no clothes no money no car. He's not much of a "sharer" and feels that everything is his (even my birth certificate). So its a few months later and I get my divorce papers. I read them and honestly didn't understand who was being discussed. I guess I just never realized that someone that I loved . . could WANT to hurt me as much as possible. I guess I just don't have that in me.

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You'd be amazed at the change in them my stbx got a gf 2 weeks after he moved out, shut off my cell phone, satellite and had my car repoed and has not payed the mtg in 2 mos but he loves his kids HA and has gone bar hopping w my oldest and his new gf

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I guess I always thought of myself as a person of integrity. If I do something wrong I have always admitted it. I'm unsure how to rationalize all thats happened.
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