I guess the way it all came about. . still shocks me. It was abrubt and unexpected not a gradual process. I was starting a business so had left my job a month before. I think he expected it to make a ton of money the first month. He left the house one day cursing at me and turned the power off when he left saying that I didn't deserve it. (he always was a little controling). So went to a friends for two days. He called and asked me to come back and I did. .he called the police and said I beat him up. and got an oder of protection so I left got an attorney who told me to go back. I went back to the house and told him the attorney said I don't have to leave. The next day he got an order of protection for my daughter so that I couldn't see her. So 10,000 later . . orders are dropped with joint custody. I just don't understand how people can just lie and have courts believe them.