So I guess my ex and I are officially broken up. I am a person who wants closure, not just a "I hate you" type of call and that I was supposed to get that this was his way of closing things off with me. In order for me to understand be able to fully move forward to my next step, I need an honest answer, not that he was saying mean things and really didn't want to break up. I don't think that I'm asking too much, maybe if I already know he struggles to open up about his feelings. Today was harder than yesterday, which I know will happen for a little while longer. I'm optimistic, and grieving at the same time. I'm trying to be hopeful, not concentrate on the break up but instead about our kids, which is an obvious priority to focus on, but it's not always that easy to forget about my needs emotionally you know? Any advice to soothe this?
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