my stbx says to bring boys to harvest hoedown and go out with them for halloween. its fine with him. BUT of course i thingk there is a method to this madness. i think he's having me take them both days because he wants them on thanksgiving. he told me the other day that his brother (one of 5 we dont never see or hear from) is coming u p from tenn. for thansgiving. he thinks for one mineute he'll have them the wohle day. hes nuts. hes gonna have to split the day in 1/2 with me. he can have the 1st half. when it came to everything in our marrige , hes had control . now i want control of when he can havetime with the boys cause hes trying to pluck them away from me. how do y'all split the holidays.?