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Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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Thank you to all of you who offered up advice and support. I guess I am just fearful of becoming a memory to her, and I am having a difficult time getting over the guilt that I should have done more to keep her loving me and keep our marriage intact.
I have not put off the idea of suicide, that will take time, but I have started to think more about my life and who I affect. My students today made me laugh and smile, helped me to remember what it is like to feel happiness. I have had a lot of kids talk to me about running track, coaching brings me happiness, I guess I got a little down because x-country is over and now I have even more time to think about her.
I will take everyones advice to heart and try to make more of an effort to find my smile again and think of those who have thought so much about me.
Thank you, Teach29
I have not put off the idea of suicide, that will take time, but I have started to think more about my life and who I affect. My students today made me laugh and smile, helped me to remember what it is like to feel happiness. I have had a lot of kids talk to me about running track, coaching brings me happiness, I guess I got a little down because x-country is over and now I have even more time to think about her.
I will take everyones advice to heart and try to make more of an effort to find my smile again and think of those who have thought so much about me.
Thank you, Teach29
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As long as you even consider it...it will affect you. You will make decisions based on it. It will ruin you and make things worse.
You have to go on with the idea that life is a collection of possibilities. -POSITIVE- possibilites. If you choose to see things in a negative light, you will only see those things which reinforce your already pessimistic point of view.
It all begins with choices.
Please make them good ones.
I am glad you had the strength and courage to get yourself out of that abyss and to reach out. Next time you feel dark remind yourself of today where you smiled and felt happy again. These days will come back and they will become more frequent. You are worth it.