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I don't know how many of you here are of the Christian faith, and that is between you and God. I'm not here to judge, but rather to offer some advice..
I'm not going to talk too much about my ex and my dumping.
There is just no point in living in the past.
In fact, that is kinda the point of my story today.
Back when we were together she would always get bothered when I started talking about a full commitment. Not Sex, I mean just staying together for the rest of our lives. After all, isn't that the point of dating/boyfriends? To find that someone who you will marry.
Anyway I never understood why it bothered her until she dumped me.
She never wanted me for keeps, I was just a puppet to get her over her ex who she felt bad about dumping.. I could go on and on about how bad she was to, and for me... While we were dating, and even worse after she dumped me.. But that's not the point I am trying to make.
My point is, every night I would pray "Why God? Help me! Why won't you help me? I thought she was THE ONE!"
on and on... I was so blind! I didn't love her... I just didn't want to be alone... She was so bad to, and for me.. But I was blind.
Anyway as you may have guessed, we didn't get back together, thank God!
4 months later I met the true love of my life and have never been happier!
I truly love my Amy,and she loves me.
If God just let me have my way like a spoiled little brat getting his way after a tantrum.. It brings me to tears to think I may not have my beloved Amy.. But rather that girl who used me..
My point is, God loves me, God loves YOU. ALL OF YOU!
no matter what you did, or how bad you think you are.. Let me tell you, I am no saint.. But at the same time I am. All who are saved by the grace of Jesus Christ are born again saints in the family of God..
God knows what's best for his Children.. Just like when you thought "The grown ups are morons" and "They don't know what their talking about" and you realize years later that they were right..
God knows what's best, and he wants the Very best for you, and your life.. He wants you to be happy, but he knows that some times you have to go threw some things to help you grow up as a person..
Think about how old you are. Even if your 100+ In the eyes of the lord you are still a new born baby in the face of how long eternity is.
Anyway, to sum it all up: I thank God for unanswered prayers.
Reflect on these words..
~Robert
I'm not going to talk too much about my ex and my dumping.
There is just no point in living in the past.
In fact, that is kinda the point of my story today.
Back when we were together she would always get bothered when I started talking about a full commitment. Not Sex, I mean just staying together for the rest of our lives. After all, isn't that the point of dating/boyfriends? To find that someone who you will marry.
Anyway I never understood why it bothered her until she dumped me.
She never wanted me for keeps, I was just a puppet to get her over her ex who she felt bad about dumping.. I could go on and on about how bad she was to, and for me... While we were dating, and even worse after she dumped me.. But that's not the point I am trying to make.
My point is, every night I would pray "Why God? Help me! Why won't you help me? I thought she was THE ONE!"
on and on... I was so blind! I didn't love her... I just didn't want to be alone... She was so bad to, and for me.. But I was blind.
Anyway as you may have guessed, we didn't get back together, thank God!
4 months later I met the true love of my life and have never been happier!
I truly love my Amy,and she loves me.
If God just let me have my way like a spoiled little brat getting his way after a tantrum.. It brings me to tears to think I may not have my beloved Amy.. But rather that girl who used me..
My point is, God loves me, God loves YOU. ALL OF YOU!
no matter what you did, or how bad you think you are.. Let me tell you, I am no saint.. But at the same time I am. All who are saved by the grace of Jesus Christ are born again saints in the family of God..
God knows what's best for his Children.. Just like when you thought "The grown ups are morons" and "They don't know what their talking about" and you realize years later that they were right..
God knows what's best, and he wants the Very best for you, and your life.. He wants you to be happy, but he knows that some times you have to go threw some things to help you grow up as a person..
Think about how old you are. Even if your 100+ In the eyes of the lord you are still a new born baby in the face of how long eternity is.
Anyway, to sum it all up: I thank God for unanswered prayers.
Reflect on these words..
~Robert
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