So I saw my therapist today for the first time in a long time. First, she was upset with me cause my divorce is not finalized yet. (we have been seperated for over two years. But once past that...she gave me some great advise that we can all use. She said to stop engaging him in his craziness. She said to not allow him to suck me into conversations that I shouldn't be having with him....such as my personal finances. (he is constantly trying to get into my financial business...asking what I spend money on...how much I spend...how I pay too much for rent...and on and on!)Just a little background-my STBX is crazy and controlling. He is still trying to control me and I left him two years ago. One minute he is Mr. Niceguy and the next he is calling me every name in the book. She told me to politely tell him I don't care to talk @ that (whatever the subject is) and HANG UP THE PHONE! I love it. That's what I will do. And for any of you with exes still trying to control their lives...JUST HANG UP THE PHONE!!!
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