Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
I am divorcing my husband of 22years because of substance abuse. The month I told him, he changed his job to the lowest paying job he has ever had. He now wants spousal support. I am going into debt $500/month to support myself and son. He is claiming disability due to diabetes(never a problem until the firts motion. The temporary orders were 3 weeks ago and spousal support was denied. Now he has filed for a decree and wants spousal support again, a month later. He will receive$200,000+ in assets. Can they make me pay him spousal support I
do not have or make me work more than I ever have in my life? Also, how do the temporary orders relate to the permanent?
do not have or make me work more than I ever have in my life? Also, how do the temporary orders relate to the permanent?
Thriver
In most places I think there is a determination fo how much he could earn, because of course people try this all the time. Your atty should be on top of this. Bring in tax returns to show that he was earning X for X years and suddenly developed a disability. The insurance company ought to be interested in his fake disability too.
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Thanks. He left a job with disability and now wants me to be it, even though he has never been claimed disabled and works 50hrs/week, so he says
Thriver
It won't work. He must think he is the first to try it.
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