I have elephants in my gut about telling my husband I want a divorce. This is something I have been wanting for 3-4 years. Last year I was going to tell him and he got injured on the job and I didn't have the heart to tell him while he was hurt and out of work. He has no idea about this. I have lived for 8 years with a man who lies cheats and steals. We have NO sex life. not for 5 years. I finally gave up. He says that he knows he "cant" so he doesn't even want to try. I have not cheated on him but I have found some evidence that he might have. He is a lazy perfectionist. He expects perfection from everyone and truly believes he is perfect. He gets very upset if his advice is not taken. He is 18 years older than me and has had me living like I am older than him taking care of him (he has been back at work full time for almost a year). I just need someone to talk to about this and I am very nervous about telling him. He has never been violent to me but who knows these days. Any ideas?
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