I am going up to my stbx house to tell him that I am proceeding with the divorce. Up to this point we seperated but I dont think he thought I would really go through with the divorce. He has been decent to me throughout this process but by no means has went out of his way to "make it up" to me. I went ahead and told my lawyer to send in the papers so she did yesterday. I have to let him know that there will be some documents he needs to sign and hopefully he will be mature about the whole thing and just sign them. Doubtful but one can hope. I dont really know what Im feeling. My stomach is upset and I am generally nervous about going to tell him tonight. I dont understand why Im nervous either. I want the divorce to happen and Im glad we are not together but for some reason I feel this way. Has anyone been through this? Help!!
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